Just to record how it felt to have Eric come home and see me...weird. I had built it up, possibly others had built it up for me, but it wasn't what I thought it would be. There was no constant drool, he didn't have some strange light in his eye as if to say "oh my god here's the woman I met". There was no repeating over and over 'oh my god!".
Nope! None of that. He was in such shock that I was actually left wondering if he even liked the weight loss. I had to ask him several times if he was happy with what he saw. Finally, Eric said that my body was so different that it was like he was cheating on the old me. He likes it (I think), but he's still getting used to it.
I posted on Obesity Help about it and was happy to hear that his reaction was very common. Its just weird to not get the expected response...